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Managing the “In-Between” Phase: When Help Might Be Needed Soon

There’s a unique stage in the caregiving journey that often goes unspoken: the “in-between” phase. It’s when things are mostly okay, but not quite as easy as they used to be. Maybe your loved one is still living independently, but you’ve noticed a few signs that make you pause:

  • Forgotten appointments
  • Missed medications
  • Growing difficulty with basic tasks
  • Subtle changes in mood or energy

You don’t want to overreact—but you don’t want to ignore it either.

If you’re in this uncertain space, you’re not alone. At TLC Caregivers, we meet families at all stages of care—not just when it’s urgent. And the truth is, the “in-between” phase can be a valuable time to plan, prepare, and get peace of mind.

1. Notice Patterns, Not Just Moments

One forgotten phone call isn’t a cause for alarm—but recurring changes might be worth noting. Keep track of little things over time:

  • Are routines slipping?
  • Are hygiene or housekeeping habits changing?
  • Is your loved one expressing more frustration or confusion?

Writing things down (even casually) helps you stay grounded in facts, not just feelings.

2. Have Low-Stress Conversations Early

You don’t need to have all the answers—or make a big decision right away. Just opening the conversation gently can help your loved one feel respected, not pressured.

Try:

“I’ve noticed things are a little different lately. How are you feeling about everything at home?”
“Would it help if someone came by once in a while to assist with a few small things?”

Start where they are, and keep it collaborative.

3. Explore Light Support Options

In-home care doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Many families start with:

  • A few hours a week for help with errands, laundry, or meals
  • Companion care for conversation and company
  • Transportation to appointments or outings

These small supports can make a big difference—and allow your loved one to remain independent longer.

4. Use This Time to Prepare

If care isn’t needed right away, use the “in-between” time to:

  • Gather important documents
  • Discuss preferences and goals for aging
  • Explore local care providers
  • Do small home safety upgrades

This isn’t about rushing—it’s about being ready.

5. Know That You’re Not “Jumping the Gun”

Many families worry they’re acting too soon. But being proactive isn’t a sign of overstepping—it’s a sign of love. Starting conversations early often means more choices, fewer surprises, and a smoother path ahead.

When You’re Not Ready—But Thinking About It

Being in the “in-between” phase doesn’t mean you’re unsure—it means you care enough to think ahead. At TLC Caregivers, we’re here to help you explore options, ask questions, and move forward at your own pace.

You don’t need to wait for a crisis to start planning.
You just need to start the conversation.